well love is the topic on everyones mind I thought I would write one about the four letter word that can be both heaven and hell blessing and curse

I've seen my share of love in this world rather felt by myself or seen in others I know that no matter what nobodys love is perfect you have to work it and make changes listen to the others needs and above all Trust the one you love.

if you dont have trust then you dont have much in a relationship ive seen my share of them to know that without trust the relationship will wither away

then at times you may fall in love at a distance I dont mean as in over seas I mean that with someone you cant have for one reason or another whether they are overseas, older, or just with someone else.

now some people may say you cant fall in love with someone like that but bottom line is love is a feeling and you can not stop a feeling if you care or love someone there is nothing you can do to stop those feelings you either have to work through them and tell the other or wait and keep the secret and have it eat away at you until you can finally tell the other person that you care for

we all know the cinderella, love story types but none of that happens in real life its not bam you love each other and happily ever after it takes work and patience from both sides Im not a guy that believes its a women's place to keep our love alive I believe it is a equal duty shared by both partys

a simple I love you will go a long way, Flowers Chocolates and Jewelry will only get you so far but trust me to your partner proving to one another that the love is still there will go a lot further then always buying a expensive gift.

but love is the ultimate Blessing/Curse in this world its the one thing that can make you feel alive and like you want to die when its taken away, ive seen people fight for the ones they love I know some that would even kill to save the person they love it is the best form of strength and courage we have to offer because when looking down the barrel of a gun if you think of the one you love and the fact that they are in danger it gives you the speed and the heart it takes to fight for control and fight for LOVE!

so in closing friends love is everything and nothing its all around us whether you see it or not, love is in a mothers Kiss, a lovers hold, in those little post its left on the mirror with a scribbled I love you on them, love is the courage to fight when all hope is lost, and it is also the cause of the worst pain and deepest cuts, but when you find it and its true and its real then it is the best feeling of the rawest passion there is its the ultimate feeling to look in the one you loves eyes and know they love you or to just be able to hang out and talk and sing your favorite songs or just to be there not saying nothing just knowing that they are close enough to you.

no matter what after reading this I hope you can tell whoever it is that you love them whether its to a friend, coworker, or your one true love!

thanks for reading in this time of declining literacy and I love you for being one of the few left that love to read!